| This book is good for gifted kids 10 and under because
if they are being teased about being gifted it may make them feel
better. It tells you how to deal with being teased - it tells you
to ask for an apology or just to walk away (as well as a few other
suggestions). It explains to you what being gifted means. It says
that being gifted includes things like being better at some subjects,
or being creative, or sometimes having a higher IQ. It says "In
simple terms [IQ] is a score of how ell you can accomplish school-type
intellectual tasks. If your IQ is high, you have the potential to
do very well at school. As we mentioned earlier whether or not you
do is entirely up to you."
It also tells you that some famous people were
told that they weren't any good at things - Beethoven was told
by his music teacher that he was no good at composing, etc. (Albert
Einstein was 4 before he could speak and 7 before he could read.)
It tells you some of the things gifted kids
say they do when they are bored silly at school. They might work
ahead of the class (without letting the teacher know). They might
finish their homework to avoid taking it home. Sometimes they
just twiddle their thumbs and are bored and at other times they
chat or do other things.
The books says that the "Six Great
Gripes of Gifted Kids" are:
"1. No-one explains what being gifted
is all about - it is kept a big secret.
2. The stuff we do at school is too easy
and it is boring.
3. Kids often tease us about being smart.
4. Friends who really understand us are
few and far between.
5. Parents, teachers (and even friends)
expect us to be perfect, to "do our best" all the
time.
6. We feel too different and wish people
would accept us for what we are."
The book tries to answer these and sometimes
does it well and other times not so well. You should buy this
book if you like the sound of this review (Judy Galbraith will
be pleased with me for saying this). Possibly the book will help
kids who are 11 and over too. It only has 66 pages and doesn't
take long to read.
Editor's Note: This book may not be appropriate
for all gifted children, but it is one of very few that are written
with them in mind. It touches on the problems of perfectionism
and making friends, and on the additional problems faced by gifted
girls. There is a Survival Guide for children 11 and over by the
same author. |